What is an ordinary friendship?

Ordinary friendship is a conditional friendship conditioned by social and/or emotional norms which make it (the friendship) dull after a number of formal repetitions (of these norms).

What is resonant friendship?

On the contrary, resonant friendship is a creative friendship, which pre-empts all conditions whatsoever to make the friendship ever-alive, genuinely attractive, energetic, and spontaneous.

How close are our friendships?

We never express ourselves truly as well as totally even in our closest relationships and best friendships for fear of getting misunderstood, ridiculed, and isolated. Slowly, we stop even acknowledging ourselves truly as well as totally. We get divided in two parts, viz., the formal and the spontaneous; the formal always suppressing and censoring the spontaneous. As a result, our personal vibrations of expression get dampened and distorted in a special way forming the personality that we are.

Why do our friendships turn static?

Dampened and distorted vibrations or frequencies never perfectly match with other persons' dampened and distorted frequencies because every distortion is unique in itself. That is why and how two friends never reinforce each other's vibrations and frequencies and do not reach a creative resonance in friendship.

How can we turn a friendship resonant?

Luckily, the situation can be reversed. If we have even one person on earth, preferably of the opposite sex (because of the natural affinity between the two) with whom, in friendship, at any and every moment, we can express ourselves as we are, or to whom we can speak any and everything we have in mind with the surety of being genuinely listened without getting misunderstood, ridiculed, or judged in any other way—either for or against—and with whom we can do the same in reciprocation; we shall start getting retuned to each other in such a creative way as to continue reinforcing each other's frequency patterns to the height of resonance.

Where does resonance take us in friendship?

Once resonance in friendship is created in this way, all the formal conditionings break down, the suppressed selves dissolve and the unpredictable and ever-new spontaneous selves prevail in friendship, which keep ever-alive as opposed to a dull and dead friendship. Both resonant friends ride the crests of their peak energies in resonance—a state which can never be shared in ordinary, formal, or emotional friendship.

What are the conditions for resonant friendship?

Theoretically, any two persons on earth can become ideal resonant friends because this is a friendship, which pre-empts all conditions—the only condition being the conscious decision to build the resonant friendship on the part of both.

Who will be my resonant friend?

But that is to be at a later stage. Initial conditions like likes and dislikes toward a particular appearance, height, education, or person do play their role in the beginning of resonant friendship in the sense that they accelerate or retard the speed of retuning and establishing resonance in friendship. Hence the importance of selection!

Where can I find a person willing for resonant friendship?

For this reason, we maintain a directory of persons interested in resonant friendship. You should search the directory only if you are really interested in resonant friendship with persons of your choice. Before you do that you must, once, properly go through the resonant friendship procedure.