1. How should you proceed after you have selected a person for resonant friendship, or another person has approached you through an email?

The person approached should either accept or reject the proposal and convey the same to the person proposing through email.

On acceptance, both resonant friends should exchange a few emails to get a preliminary feel of the person before meeting in person.

2. Where should the resonant friends meet in person the first time?

At a public place with a prime concern for safety. They should get the second preliminary feel of the person before getting closer to each other.

3. Once confidence has been built between the two, how should they proceed?

They should start by sitting in front of each other and looking straight into each other's eyes.

4. Who should speak first?

Anybody. If by chance both start speaking simultaneously, anyone of the two should stop and listen.

5. What should they speak?

Any and everything that comes to mind without changing, distorting, or hiding even a single bit of it. Given below is a trivial example of a part of a conversation between two resonant friends John and Mary:

John: Your tightly pressed upper lip gives me a feeling you may ditch any person any time.

Mary: (laughs) I am hurt.

John: I didn't mean hurting.

Mary: I believe.

John: I am grateful you believed me.

Mary: That is the basic condition of our friendship.

John: I feel like kissing you.

Mary: I am put off by that mole on your cheek.

John: Did I offend you?

Mary: No. Are you hurt?

John: Yes.

Mary: How can I help you?

John: You already did by asking about my being hurt.

Mary: I really felt as if I myself got hurt.

John: I love you.

Mary: I love your mole.

John: Really?

Mary: Yes, really now.

This is only a trivial example for the feel of it but the same spirit should continue every moment throughout the meeting. The bottom line is that every thought or feeling has to be expressed AS IT IS.

6. What should the other person do while one speaks?

The other person should keep looking into the first person's eyes and listen to him/her without judgment, i.e., receiving WHAT IT IS without either being emotionally hurt or getting flattered.

7. How should the conversation proceed?

Both should, normally, speak turnwise. If sometime a very pressing thought comes to the mind of one who is listening at the moment, he/she should give a signal by raising his/her finger and the person speaking should stop for listening, if possible.

8. What about the silences in between the conversation?

Both should keep looking into each other's eyes.

9. To what extent can the graph of building resonance take the two friends?

There are no boundaries.

10. Should the resonance friends decide on the boundaries not to be crossed during the course of resonance being built?

It totally depends on the two and their situations.